Final Project
In life many obstacles will be faced. The biggest of these obstacles is life itself. The human experience has for centuries been something unique to each individual. However, the fact that the human experience goes far beyond the physical manifestation of man, woman, and child. The mind and the spirit can and should never be overlooked. Everything begins in the mind, so there is no way imaginable to conceive that the mind is separable from the body. When it comes to healing the same philosophy must be adopted.
In order to completely heal anything wrong with a person the areas of mind, body, and spirit must all be addressed equally. It is for this reason that health-care practitioners need to change the method in which healing is practiced.
In order to truly become a healer, in every sense of the word, a health and wellness professional has to develop psychologically, spiritually, and physically. However, this can only happen once a health and wellness professional understands that healing goes far beyond treating the human body. A friend of mind was recently shot four times on the right side of his body. Due to his injuries majority of his right side is disabled. Being that I see him very often I have been able to assess the extent of his injuries. The physical damage is evident to anyone who sees him, but beyond the eye there are the mental and spiritual issues that are only visible after spending some time with him. Mentally, he suffers from depression and a somewhat false hope that he will one day return 110% back to normal. Spiritually, he is a broken man. He will not leave the car when going out for any reason whatsoever. The sad part about it all is that all of the therapists and doctors he visits never address these issues. All they are concerned with is his physical handicaps. More than half of his human experience is not being healed. This leads to delusional thoughts and difficulty accepting reality. This was just one example of why it is extremely important for anyone in the health-care field to develop psychologically, spiritually, and physically. Another reason is a health-care practitioner may be fine physically, but may be suffering from some type of mental issue. How can a person who is not healthy mentally ever try to address or heal another person? It is not different than a person who smokes try to tell someone else to quit.
As for me I need to work on developing my mind and my spirit. Truth be told, I have only began to discover my inner mind. It was only until the start of this course that I found and took an interest in meditating. In fact, I still find it difficult to shut out all the external noise when I am meditating. If I was shown how to unlock the inner mind long ago I am sure I would be much better at it than I currently am. Furthermore, I need to work more on developing my loving kindness towards those I don’t know, and more importantly towards those I do know. I find it very difficult to realize that everyone is unique and it takes love and kindness to understand and accept everyone for the persons they are. I have confidence that this will all develop over time and as long as I continue striving I will make way.
When looking at and assessing all three (mind, spirit, and body) I would honestly say that none are perfect. I would have to say that physically I am the most developed. In that area I would rate myself at an 8. I exercise in the gym 5 times a week, and have been for over 15 years now. In that regard, something about that type of discipline speaking volumes about my mind because there is no way the body can perform at that level for that many years without having a strong mind. However, I have never tried to reach into my essence and see what my subtle mind was all about. The reason for this is simply because I never knew there was a way to get there. In that regard I would have to rate my mind at a 7. As far as the spiritual aspect of my life I would have to say that it is the most underdeveloped part of my life. Since my mind is only a 7 and in order to reach the spirit I must go through the gateway of the mind I would have to rate my spiritual at a 5. I am not one for religion or that avenue of spirituality, but I am interested in developing my inner most mind, which I consider to be the spirit.
Although I am not 100% in any of these areas, and I doubt I ever will be, I have goals that will help me with my development. When it comes to my physical I plan to watch my diet a lot more closely and continue to exercise the way I have been doing. With my mind, I plan on meditating a lot more and increasing the time I spend meditating as I get better at it. My goal for my spirit involves making it to a state of meditation where I have become so proficient at blocking out the outside chatter that I can reach the spirit. Essentially, the goal I have for my spiritual development walks hand in hand with my mental development. The better I get at meditating, the closer I can get to reaching my spirit. These goals and my development in all of these fields will be a lifelong commitment and work in progress.
In order to foster growth in my physical, psychological, and spiritual domains I have come up with a strategy. As mentioned earlier I plan to watch my diet. I am going to eliminate processed foods and remove fast foods from my diet. In addition, I will add more cardiovascular exercises to my workout regimen. As for my psychological strategy, I plan on experimenting with different types of meditation exercises and, most importantly, I plan on giving my all towards loving a new person in my life as often as possible. This leaves the spiritual aspect of my life. My strategy here is to reach a point in my meditation where I do not break concentration until I have reached the spiritual plane. Another strategy is simply developing a desire that is unwavering in regards to finding my soul.
In regards to a commitment for the next 6 months, I plan on taking before and after photos to monitor my physical development. For my metal development I plan on keeping a diary of how long I can stay under meditation and of how many different meditation techniques I have tried. As for my spiritual commitment I plan on rating my level of focus at the present moment and then revisiting that rating in 6 months. In the long-term commitment I plan on using my children as a benchmark and inspirational tool to keep me committed. I know this world is theirs and I will use that notion to fulfill my promise to making it the best world possible for them.
Although there may be nothing harder than living a time must come when human flourishing has been reached. In order to reach this level each aspect of the human experience must be addressed and developed. Developing these areas will take more than a lifetime, but in the process peace can be achieved. This is why it is extremely important to keep in mind and know that the human being is much more than a sum of its parts.
Sean, thanks for sharing your story. You seem to have a great understanding of your cuurent health status and a solid plan for the future. Your last statement about the human being and our potential is right on. We need to understand that we are not machines that can be fixed with surgery or a fast-acting drug. We must develop our mind, spirit, and body in conjunction with eachother. Only then will we enjoy health, happiness, and wholeness. Great project Sean. Best wishes to you in the future and be well.
ReplyDeleteDanny
Sean, I'm so sorry to read about your friend... I shuddered because a good friend lost her dad to a "disgruntled employee" shooter just last Thursday here in my area, and it hit home.. ( 4 people dead then he shot himself) such a waste and a tragedy for many families.
ReplyDeleteI really appreciated your honesty about how much you feel you need to do.. it's nice to not feel alone in this regard. I especially liked that last line, about a person is more than the sum of their parts..your friend's story drove this point home very effectively. I don't think there is anyone who would argue that point. And, so true.. inner wholeness is a constant work in progress.. never static.
Great job on all fronts, Sean. Best of luck to you in the future, and in your career as well.